Thursday, June 19, 2008

When girls chase guys..




Its common to see a guy or even guys trying to impress a girl. Nothing wrong, its obvious with sex ratio in India at all time low,[just kidding] but then would this equation be ever changed, not to mention that it does happens otherwise too but overall it’s the traditional way. So then just to give it a thought how things would be when girls chase guys. Let me imagine and explore this thought. When I asked few of my lady friends and also as I heard on radio fm meow, I found girls believe only 1 percent of guys are good. duh what an impression, thank you. Now in this imaginary world girls feels 99 percent of guys are good and only 1 percent are turn offs. These 99 percent guys don’t see other women’s as sex objects but see as friends or soulmates, moreover they are caring, considerate and compassionate with good sense of humor and sensibility towards their emotional and physical needs.
So then how would girls behave in such scenario? Well we will have girls hitting gym more frequently then guys [not to mention beauty clinics too] they become more humorous and flirty with finding loads of time to be spent on impressing men. We will see a girl proposing a guy much before then the guy would ever imagine. Sending them endless sweet messages all time and buying countless gifts and greetings from Archie’s shop to make them feel special. Also keeping them happy with strange sweet surprises and ya flowers in-between to keep things fresh.
Now that’s what I believe would be every mans dream which unfortunately would remain just a dream. Yes only a dream unless I think if we men apart from keeping our own good inherent traits start learning from women in detail the way to be towards others and give these wonderful species their share of love, respect and honor.

Friday, June 13, 2008

The beliefs I believe in, a piece of my mind..



I remember one of my friend studying back in America replied to my question how are you as ‘mat puch vaibhav, zindagi jeene me bada mazza aa raha hai’ [I am having a great time living life] ohh boy what an answer, rarely one hears that. Even I wondered after that call, why cant I be in smashing mood always. I think life is like a music and we simply play to it, we play to its different genres like the rock, the blues,etc. And who plays it. No wonder the almighty up there but then why cant we stay in rocking mode even in blues. Maybe we can, maybe we cannot, I don’t know but what I believe is that if try to live life in more likely way then we may ultimately liveout in rocking way. I believe all of us here have a purpose in life. Every soul has a mission and the mission is not physical but spiritual in nature. And for me spirituality is simplicity of thoughts and deeds. Sharing, caring and making the people around me feel special is what I like to do and follow everyday. I believe character is destiny because every action counts and every deed has a ripple effect. I believe one must do good things for its goodness and for ones own satisfaction.
I would like to ask god to always bless me and keep me closer to him. For me a person is a reflection of his soul. I believe god is in detail of all human existence and present everwhere [he watched me while writing and is watching you while reading] so that makes us son/daughter of god. And as his child not a single day of mine passes without praying and thanking him for whatever he has given me. Trying to make my parents proud of me keeps me ticking in right direction everyday. I believe life is a gift which gets glorious as we share and live it lively with other lives. So cheers to life.